.Yet what Astrid does not notice but is an honest truth that both Ortega as well as O'Hara-- that has pair of boys-- can easily vouch for: The fact that your partnership with your moms and dads adjustments and also evolves as you both get older, and hopefully right. "Your globe centers around [your kids] when they're children [and] it is actually a great deal work yet wonderful," O'Hara points out. "Eventually, you really miss out on that, considering that after that you can not acquire all of them to perform everything you prefer them to carry out, considering that they start creating their very own thoughts, their very own point of views." As well as at some point, you wind up in the location O'Hara, whose children are in their 20s as well as 30s, discovers herself now, able to profit from her kids. "They are actually only such amazing young men," she states. "I'm certainly not their friend, but I love possessing talks with them as well as being familiar with just how they deal with life.".